tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3097796401058952675.post763080532811131701..comments2024-01-19T04:42:29.359-06:00Comments on poured out: Vanilla Sex Rxpoured outhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/16215042728468839790noreply@blogger.comBlogger4125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3097796401058952675.post-73402085719792873102011-05-21T16:05:53.233-05:002011-05-21T16:05:53.233-05:00Nick,
I've only recently starting exploring m...Nick,<br /><br />I've only recently starting exploring my submissive side. But, remembering things like the subject matter of this post, as well as other things, I realize, like you did, it has always been there.poured outhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16215042728468839790noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3097796401058952675.post-60765073698010450752011-05-21T16:03:12.211-05:002011-05-21T16:03:12.211-05:00Alice,
You make an interesting point. One in whic...Alice,<br /><br />You make an interesting point. One in which I could see a distinction not only between vanilla and D/s, but between D/s and kink as well. Whereas, one person may like being tied up during sex just for the sake of being tied up, it could put another (ahem, me) in that submissive headspace of, "Yes, I just want you to you take what everything I'm giving you."<br /><br />But, that is probably belaboring definitions too much. And who really cares if you're having fun!poured outhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16215042728468839790noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3097796401058952675.post-25500966548320151442011-05-21T09:00:09.702-05:002011-05-21T09:00:09.702-05:00I didn't really present openly (sexually) as ...I didn't really present openly (sexually) as a Dom until I was almost 40. But the signs were there. I was married for many years and small elements were there. <br />I remember tying a girls hands behind her with a belt during a drunken fumble in the street when I was about 17, walking home from a party.<br /><br />it is an interesting point you made ( and alice ) but I think that although the Dominant feelings were always there, I didn't get started until much later.Nickhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04020964222769796901noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3097796401058952675.post-9819278168479390552011-05-21T03:19:07.262-05:002011-05-21T03:19:07.262-05:00Yes. I understand what you are saying. However the...Yes. I understand what you are saying. However the physical act looks from the outside, it is our feelings about what is going on,about what we want and what excites us, that define it as "vanilla" or "D/s" sex. That being the case, I would answer the thread in exactly the same way as you. Interesting post. Thank you.Alicehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12796515657265727452noreply@blogger.com