Sir's Visit (100th Post)

I finally got to my 100th post.  And it's appropriate that it should be about Sir's visit this weekend.  Actually, I posted another post just a bit earlier and deleted it because it was just too mopey.  I'm trying to be better about being upbeat.

We had a wonderful weekend together.

He brought me flowers.  So sweet.  They are beautiful red roses.

However, I think the sweetest thing he did was pack early.  Sir travels a lot for work.  And if we get to talk in the morning before he leaves for his flight, he is still packing.  It was so so so sweet that he so anticipated being here so much that he packed early.

Saturday we stayed in bed for so long.  I want to say half the day, but that might be an exaggeration. We walked a trail at a local park.  It was nice and quiet.  It was rather humid though.  I've lived here all my life and I've never acclimated to the humidity.  But, it was a beautiful day.  We drove to the beach.  And drove along the shoreline for a little while.  Sir was amazed at how few people were at the beach.  It's one of his favorite things to do, I believe, is walk on the beach.  It probably is top on the list.  Right after spanking me and doing other things to me.  :-)

One of his Christmas presents was Casablanca on DVD.  It's his favorite! We watched that together Saturday.  We did a lot of vanilla things.

Sunday we drove to the Island.  It was super crowded.  Not like the beaches where I live.  We scoped out places to stay on a mini-vacation!!!  My favorite place is on the Harborside, but Sir loves the beach.  And there are so many place just across the street from the beach.  We'll stay on the beach side when we spend time there.

We ate in for all our meals.  I loved doting on him.  Cooking for him.  Taking care of him.

We cuddled and hugged alot. I got spanked a lot. Flogged a couple of times.  Both spanked and flogged once. (More on that damned flogger later.)  Kissed alot. Other things alot!

Neither of us wanted to get out of bed this morning.  I wanted to hold onto him a little longer.  Well...more than a little longer.

Honestly, I miss him so much now it hurts. It gets harder to tell him goodbye. But, he'll be back soon.

Or, I'll be there???  My job has gone down the drain recently so I am going to check out the job market where he lives.  Who knows; maybe it's in the cards?

The weekend was wonderful. Amazing. The only thing that made it not perfect is that it ended.

Love & SSO

He's Here

And that's all I got to say about that!

SSO

Doing the Happy Dance

It's Monday and I can't wait for Friday to get here.  Not in the Monday Blahs kind of way.

But, because.....

Sir will be here Friday!

I'm one happy girl.  Doing the Happy Dance!

Love & SSO

I Got A Spanking

That probably isn't considered big news for a kinky blog!  And, it's especially not the most titillating news in the kinky blog world!

But, still....

I got a spanking.

It's my first since we were together in November.  I haven't had a spanking since. 

If I didn't know Sir better, I'd say it was because I used a bit of inappropriate language watching the Bulls play tonight.  But, I don't get punishment spankings.  Ever.  It's just not Sir's thing.  Not that he would spank me for inappropriate language either.

Still, my first spanking since November.  Well, at least my first ass spanking.  My other parts have had spankings aplenty!

I've wondered about not getting spanked since we were together.  I've kinda had this feeling of dread about having a spanking again.   I have, being who I am,  analyzed it up and down, backwards and forwards.  I think it's because I feared being disappointed by it.

It's difficult being in an LDR.  If Sir wants me to have a spanking, I have to administer it for him.  I have a vivid imagination though and get my mind in a certain place pretty quickly that it is Sir giving me the spanking.  Or, that he actually there, not over the phone, wanting me to spank myself for him.  Weird, maybe, but it works.  Because really who would spank themselves?  Pfft! 

Since November, though, I've dreaded not being able to get back in that space because...well, I've had Sir really spank me now.  I felt like I would want him again too much to get in that space.

After watching the Bulls fumble (well, there weren't any real fumbles, at least not that I remember) to a win, we were going to take a dinner break and connect again a little later.  That is until Sir decided I needed a spanking.

Yes, Sir.

As usual, my dread was for naught. And all it took was pulling down my panties and counting the first spank.  I was in that place.

Still, I can't wait until the end of the month when Sir comes to visit again and I get his real spankings again.

Love & SSO

New Year Aspirations

...in pictures!

Be More Postive
Be More Involved.
Just Be.
Be More Social
Do More Good.
Embrace Life.
Get Outdoors More.
Live Life.
Be More Frugal.
Be More Creative.
Be Kind.
Be Fabulous.
Be Well.
Be Whole.
Be Healthy.
Expand My Horizons.
Live Simply.
Bloom Wildly.

It's going to be a Very Good year!